The best apps to stay in touch with friends

    Seven honest picks for keeping the friends you already have. Short answer first: amiqo is the best free app for real friends, because it is the only one that drafts the message for you and lives on your home screen. The rest of this list covers where the alternatives genuinely fit better.

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    Seven apps, ranked honestly

    #1

    amiqo

    Our pick

    The friendship CRM for the friends you already have.

    Keeping close to the handful of people you would actually be sad to lose.
    Free
    iOS, Android

    amiqo surfaces one person a day, drafts a warm opener in your voice, and lets you drop a photo that lands on your friend's home screen. It also has a 'join me' surface so close friends can tap into your workouts and classes. Private, no feed, no ads.

    #2

    Fabriq

    Tidy personal CRM for friends and family.

    People who like to organise their relationships into circles.
    Freemium
    iOS, Android

    Fabriq nails the tiered inner-circle model and sends keep-in-touch nudges. It does not draft the actual message, so the last mile is still on you.

    Full amiqo vs Fabriq comparison →

    #3

    Inner Circle

    Clean, private relationship tracker.

    iPhone users who want quiet, simple reminders.
    Freemium
    iOS

    Simple and calm. Missing an Android app and does not write the opener, but a solid pick if you already know what to say.

    Full amiqo vs Inner Circle comparison →

    #4

    Dex

    Personal CRM built for professional contacts.

    Founders and operators warming a network.
    Paid, free trial
    iOS, Android, web

    The best-in-class personal CRM if your goal is professional networking. Overkill for the friends you text on a Tuesday.

    Full amiqo vs Dex comparison →

    #5

    Monica

    Open-source personal CRM you can self-host.

    Privacy nerds who like owning their data.
    Open source, self-host
    Web, self-host

    Wonderful project. The trade-off is setup and maintenance; if you want the same friends-and-family focus with nothing to host, amiqo is the shorter path.

    Full amiqo vs Monica comparison →

    #6

    Clay

    Polished professional CRM with LinkedIn enrichment.

    Creators and founders managing a large network.
    Paid, free trial
    iOS, Mac, web

    Beautiful and genuinely useful if you meet lots of people for work. Not built for staying close to a small group of real friends.

    Full amiqo vs Clay comparison →

    #7

    Notion personal CRM

    DIY database in Notion.

    Tinkerers who live in Notion already.
    Freemium
    iOS, Android, web

    Full control. The catch: no nudge and no drafted message, so most templates go unopened after a few weeks.

    Full amiqo vs Notion personal CRM comparison →

    What matters in an app for keeping friends

    • Nudges you about a specific person. Reminders in general do not work. Reminders about Sara this Tuesday do.
    • Removes the blank text box. The hardest part of texting a friend is the first line. A good app writes it for you.
    • Private by default. Your friend list is not a network to be mined. It is a small, quiet ledger only you should see.
    • Actually opens. The best CRM template loses to a home-screen widget that shows a friend's face every morning.

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